The Family Structure
One of the innate things that have a great influence on the kid’s growth is the family structure. Not a very long time ago, having five to six children is very common. But in recent times, we have come to an understanding a couple of kids is quite enough. This is majorly due to modernism, an increase of needs and fear of more responsibility. This has branched to different types of family structures.
However, children brought with different family situations have quite a wide perspective on life. Majorly, there are four types of family structure: nuclear family, extended family, single-parent family and reconstituted family. Let’s have a vision of how it impacts the children of the respective families.
Call it a trend or need of recent decades, nuclear families are the most common type of family structure. The nuclear family is usually only the parents and their kids living under one roof. Also, parents who want to start a nuclear family normally tend to have two to three children and not more than that.
Due to such family set up, the children of the family don’t get to meet up with their grandparents and extended families more often. They are more isolated and constrained from their kith and kin. Therefore, over time, the children tend to lose belief in relationships and are harder to inculcate family values and traditions. A nuclear family might be a win-win situation financially, but it is a disadvantage for people who love to be around people.
The extended family is casually the family that extends beyond just the kids to their grandparents and other family members. It is quite an advantage to live in an extended family. Since it’s usually fun to have so many people around and they will back you up in the time of need. Nowadays, it is form extended families since everyone has their own set of needs and wants to be more private.
Children brought in extended families will learn human values from grandparents, family history and discipline from relatives, the art of sharing and caring from fellow cousins and so on. Additionally, children will develop patience in different situations and learn how to handle circumstances with more maturity. An extended family structure deepens family bonding on young children and growing teens.
Decades back, coming out from marriage and starting an independent life with a kid is of great question. Directly or indirectly, a failed marriage was considered a great barrier in one’s individual life. But the times have changed. Raising a kid as a single parent has become more casual than before.
A kid raised in the care and presence of both the parents is more confident and self-assured than kids brought by a single-parent. A family structure with a single parent is going to be hard on the kid from now and then. The children might develop inferiority because of the family structure and also develop a bad influence on relationships.
Individually have their freedom of finding their soul mates and getting remarried even after a failed marriage. There is nothing wrong with starting a new family after divorce. But a lot of cautions and slow steps have to be taken care of when you got a kid from your previous relationship. A new relationship with the parent might greatly affect the growth of the children of the home.
Even though the reconstituted family structure has become increasing in this society, the children brought up in such situations have their perspective. It might turn out for the good of the children too. Everything depends on the parenting approach of the individuals and how they communicate with their kids.